Since May, 2008, I have written articles on many
aspects of the straight spouse experience.
I’ve responded to hundreds of online comments and private emails
generated by this blog. Occasionally, with
permission from correspondents, I’ve embedded their powerful messages in longer
articles.
Now I would like to invite
readers to submit guest posts for this site, sharing more directly their own
stories and lessons learned from their mixed-orientation relationships. This hard-won wisdom can be more than helpful—it
can change lives.
If you are a straight spouse with a topic you’d
like to write about, or if you want to share your personal story in a supportive
way, submit
a proposal to me before sending the post.
Click on the highlighted link to open an email for your proposal.
Your topic or story should relate directly to some aspect of your own
straight spouse experience, e.g. coping mechanisms, telling the children, other
parenting concerns, self-care during crisis, decision to stay or separate, legal
or financial aspects of either, secrecy issues, counseling experiences,
long-term healing, etc. Gay-straight relationships are multi-faceted and
complicated and we learn from each other. Your own experience will
suggest subjects to address in a post.
Once you’ve sent your proposal, if your topic or
story seems appropriate for this site, I’ll send more detailed guidelines about
desired format and content. When your
post is completed, you can publish it under your own name or a pseudonym. Your privacy will be protected at all
times.
Though there are dozens of articles already
available here on the Straight Spouse Connection, they only scratch the surface of
possible topics of interest to men and women whose mates unexpectedly came out
as gay. You can add to the useful
information here and I’m eager to provide a forum for original articles and the
comments they’ll generate.
Send a proposal today. Thank you for visiting this site and for your
interest in helping other straight spouses heal their hurts and create a more
satisfying future.
With
great respect,
Carol
Congratulations on being featured in this online magazine for your poetry! http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/books/glimpses-267134.html
You truly are an instrument of growth and peace, Carol. I am grateful to know you.
Happy New Year,
Maryjo Morgan
http://maryjofaithmorgan.com/
My situation is still difficult partly because my gay spouse was extremely abusive emotionally and mentally. I was unattractive and he was always comparing me to other women. And now, even though he has a detailed profile on the Adam4Adam website (which is how I found out about his homosexuality) where he is looking for relationships with other men, he insists to our children that he has a girlfriend. We have been divorced for 21/2 years and I am still very angry with him. I should say that we were married for thirty-five years and all our children were of majority age when we divorced.